Gen Halilintar




Sebagai makhluk sosial kita pasti akan berhubungan dengan berbagai tipikal orang. Gk semua orang akan sesuai dengan keinginan kita dan gk semua orang bisa sebaik seperti yang kita bayangkan. Gk semua orang baik itu baik dan gk semua orang jahat itu jahat. Orang baik akan terlihat jahat kalau dia gk sesuai dengan yang kita harapkan begitu juga sebaliknya. 

We can't judge someone by the cover, right? Contohnya saja kalau ada wanita yang cantik kadang orang berpikir kalo dia bodoh dan hanya mengandalkan kecantikan. Padahal bisa jadi dia memiliki otak yang cerdas dan memiliki kemampuan luar biasa. Tapi akan ada juga orang yang berpikir kalau wanita yang kurang cantik tidak cocok melakukan pekerjaan di depan publik atau sejenisnya, padahal bisa saja ternyata public speaking dia lebih bagus dan dia bisa menjadi yang terbaik. Ganteng, cantik, pintar, kaya... itu semua pemberian siapa? ALLAHkan? Kenapa harus bangga? Banggalah jika kamu bisa menjadi seseorang yang menempatkan Allah menjadi satu-satunya dihatimu. 

Bumi itu kecil, buktinya kita bisa menggambarnya dengan selembar peta atau sebuah globe. Kelilinglah dunia agar kamu tau kalo bumi itu kecil. Maka genggamlah akhirat sehingga kamu juga bisa menggenggam dunia.

Manusia dilahirkan dengan kesempurnaan dan hanya orang-orang yang mau berusahalah yang mampu memahami arti kehidupan. Menurut aku sih menjadi baik itu bukan berarti harus bersikap fanatik atau kolot dengan agama. Jadilah muslim yang modern tapi tetap mengikuti perintah Allah serta berpedoman pada Al qur'an dan hadits. 

Ada yang tau keluarga Halilintar? Beliau mempunyai 11 anak dan beliau terhitung sukses dalam mendidik anak-anaknya. Mereka menyebut keluarga mereka "gen halilintar". mereka bekerjasama sebagai team dirumah dan mengatur rumah mereka seperti hotel tanpa menggunakan jasa pembantu sama sekali. Anak-anak memiliki tugas masing-masing dirumahnya. Ada yang jadi housekeeping, chef, petugas laundry, service and maintanance dll. Motto mereka adalah "we sell what we use, what we eat, what we wear and what we utilize". Setiap pagi mereka akan melakukan briefing untuk melist apa saja kegiatan yang akan dilakukan dihari itu dan ibu mereka akan mencatatnya. Di malam hari mereka akan mengevaluasi kegiatan mereka apakah dilakukan atau tidak dan apa hambatannya. Mereka adalah "role model" buat keluarga masa depanku nanti. Aku akan mendidik anak-anakku seperti yang mereka lakukan. Semoga aku bisa mendapatkan suami yang memiliki visi dan misi yang sama sehingga kami bisa membentuk keluarga yang sesuai syariat tapi tetap modern dan tidak ketinggalan zaman. 



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Rerekara




The power of Islam

Ketika kita sholat, berdoa, berbuat baik dengan sesama, Allah SWT tidak mendapatkan keuntungan apapun. Tapi kitalah yang diuntungkan, kitalah yang akan memetik hasilnya. Dengan sholat kita akan merasa damai, dengan doa kita akan mendapatkan semangat, dengan berbuat baik kepada sesama kita akan mendapatkan kebahagiaan dan kepuasan. Hal apalagi yg kita cari?

Begitu juga sebaliknya, ketika kita berbuat Maksiat, Allah SWT sama sekali tidak dirugikan tapi kitalah yang merugi. Kita akan gelisah, takut, sedih, hampa, merasa dihantui.

Allah meminta kita untuk mentaati perintahNya dan menjauhi laranganNya semata-mata untuk kebaikan kita sendiri. Maha Besar Allah dengan segala firmanNya~ 

semoga kita selalu di tuntun untuk menjadi hambaNya yg selalu memperbaiki diri.
Allahuakbar~



He is Just Not That Into You



I thought we all ever been in the situation when we close and loves someone but you don't have any idea does he loves you back or not. Sometimes a women will stuck into that guy and hope too much. Keep asking and pretending that he loves you or not. 

Women have all had these exhausting conversations with our friends trying to decode his behavior. We also waste time and energy over-analyzing the behavior of a guy we are dating, making excuses for him, and justifying his behavior. These hours of wasted suffering, worry, and anxiety couldn’t be more counterproductive.  

The truth is, if you are having to try and determine if he is really interested and available, then the answer is crystal clear - He is NOT.   When a guy is truly interested, there is no question, no wondering, and no self-imposed drama trying to figure it out.  You won’t have to ask yourself or anyone else, it will be obvious, because his behavior will tell you loud and clear when he is interested, anything less should reveal to you, “he’s just not that into you”.

If the answer is that black and white, then the real question is...
 “Why don’t women want to see the obvious answer when he is just not that into you?” 

You initiate and he doesn’t follow through. If you’re really into a guy and you think he may be shy, try initiating a conversation, phone call or texting session. If you start the conversation, he’ll want to continue it. However, if he doesn’t return your calls or texts or tries to end the conversation quickly, he may not be into you.

 A man who wants to make a relationship work will move mountains to keep the woman he loves. If he's not calling you to tell you he loves you and wants you back, it's because he's showing up at your new residence in person. if he's not doing any of that, he may love you, he may miss you, but ultimately he's just not that into you." 

I ever had in that situation, when I pretending that he loves me too but the real facts "he is just not that into me". He came to my life, made me fall in love so deeply. After that, he is just left me without an explanation. Why a guy usually left without an explanation? Its a bad things when a guy left you and brings you heartache. But The worst is... why I still live in fake hope that he still loving me?

Actually, I'm not a kind of person who gives up on someone. yes, there will be times where i will be really mad and upset so I need a minute to cool off, but I will never abandon you. I don't leave people.  and I think that's why its always hurt so bad when people leave me.

When someone you loves actually not into you, the only thing you can do just moving on and accept all the real facts that he can't be together with you. you should open your heart to another guy that really know how to treat you better.


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Rerekara

Are You a Good Netizen?




Well, i decided to write about "netizen" for my challenge. Let's start!!

Do you know the meaning of netizen? The term Netizen is a fusion of the English words Internet and citizen. It is defined as an entity or person actively involved in online communities and a user of the Internet, especially an avid one. Are you a netizen? I think every people in this world basically using internet in their life. You can't live without internet, right? Most of them habitually using internet day and night. I ever had a friend that addicted with media social. She will uploaded her selfie's photo so many times and need a long time to write a caption. She felt dissapointed if the likers not too much. I think thats not a good life style. If you just stay focused with your unreal life, you will lost your real life. We should be a good netizen and use internet in a good ways, right? Bad netizen will create cyber-bullying, cyber crime and many bad affects. are you a good netizen? I think internet its not a bad things at all if you know how to used it. Furthermore, you can use the internet for a good ways, likes for charity and get money from media social or be a bloggers, writers and inspired people. Have you ever think to get lost somewhere without bring your handphone, laptop or anything that have relations with internet? I think it will be fun when you spent your day with your family or friends without gadget. Laugh together and having fun. Go outside and see how nature can bring you happiness. Lets be a good netizen fellas!!

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Rerekara

My First Hijab



May I ask you? What is your last experience that can change your mindset or life? When did you realize to learned from your past? It's my story that can changed me and actually changed my mindset also. I hope no one judge me because i just want people can take a lesson from my story. When I'm at junior high school I'm not wear hijab because no one told me that wearing hijab is moslem obligation. All my friends not wear hijab too. Actually I'm a tomboy girl. I likes using t-shirt and short pants. Also I hate make up *lol*. After that, when I was entered senior high school, my school obligated us to wear hijab. At the first time I wear hijab I felt uncomfortable. I still not wear hijab when I'm outside of the school. Fyi, I have choosen "pencak silat" for my extracurricular activity as well. It's more proved that I'm not girly at all. When I'm become third grade and second semester, I started istiqamah wear hijab because i ever heard that if you are not wear hijab your head will burn in the hell. I tried but sometimes I still not wear hijab on some situation. Furthermore, I changed my extracurriculer activity into traditional dance because I thought I need acted elegant. But I think I'm still not elegant now and absolutely abnormal hha. In the end of the second semester I was asking my boyfriend to constantly wear hijab and he refused it. He is christiani. He asked me to not wear hijab. At that time, I realize that no one more understanding me except God. I decided to break up with him. I spent my whole time learned more about Islam. I asked a lot of people that having more knowledge about Islam. I fall in love with my hijab already. It's protect me from bad people, also can protect all my body from the sun. When I accepted at dentistry, i felt so grateful and make me think "when u have 'GOD' in your heart, every good think will come to you". I have choosen KSI Asy-Syifa organization for learned more about my religion. I met many great person at there. They teached me, guide me, and also I have a better understanding about my religion. Now, I can't go outside if I'm not wearing my hijab. I feel uncomfortable if there someone see my aurat. It is miracle, right? 

*CMIIW (correct me if I wrong), still learning writing essay in english hehe.



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Book Review: Antologi Rasa (Cinta yang Bertepuk Sebelah Tangan)

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